What Is Tantric Massage?
A tantric massage is a caring touch filled with attention and presence, without a basic form and established result. Tantra massage is provided from the heart. In a tantric massage, the entire body participates and erotic zones can likewise be touched. Naturally, always with regard for (mutual) borders. Tantra massage is an energetic massage in which sexual energy likewise gets attention. A tantra massage takes place on the basis of equality and develops an intimate connection in between massage giver and receiver. Psychologically, physically, at heart level and sometimes even at the depths of body and soul. The purpose of a tantric massage is to "bring" the receiver in (the direction of) a natural, delighted state of being. The effect is often a fantastic physical, psychological wellness. Usually, the receiver is very relaxed, incredibly flowing and ending up well in the heart, and in higher spheres.
Tantric Massage is all about Loving touch
A tantric massage is a loving touch filled with attention and existence. Tantra massage is given from the heart. The majority of touch will take place through the hands (or body to body) it is really enjoy that touches. The hands of the giver are linked with his/her heart. The touch is caring, constantly focused on the well-being of the receiver. The recipient is also present, and gets active and also feels (eventually) from the heart. Be caring!
Complete of attention and existence during tantric massage
A tantra massage is a loving touch loaded with attention and existence. Both the provider and the receiver are totally present. Do not think of the other day or tomorrow. Do not take a look around or being busy with something else, no, your full attention is on offering or getting the massage. A really conscious touch from the heart. Receive likewise extremely purposely, feeling it in your heart. Tantra massage is not about regular, set patterns are really out of the question. Whatever takes place in the moment, in complete awareness, lovingly attuned to each other and the scenario. Dreaming away or going to sleep is also not intended (still, when that's exactly what you need, it's okay).
A tantric massage isn't about a predetermined outcome
A tantric massage will always be various. You never ever know how it will end up. It is not the method or the wanted sequence of rubbing that is essential, it's about what is appropriate/necessary. What/where does the recipient most require at the minute? Exactly what is excellent for her/him? Love knows exactly what to do, enjoy constantly has a suitable response. And so the massage will be precisely that exactly what is needed. Enough is that the giver is present and keeps tuning into his/her heart, to the frequencies of love. The divine likewise has its own plan, you cannot "do" it.
Tantric massages therefore typically take a really unexpected course. A tantric massage does not constantly have to be "fine", ending in bliss.
The best ways to get the finest from your tantric massage
Always with respect to limitations
We understood it for a long time, of course, but given that the #MeToo revelations, some things have come up in the world of tantra massage. Of course, this has little to do with tantric massage.
Set clear boundaries in advance
Everyone (other than when you are enlightened) has his limitations. This is human and is likewise required (check out the post on securing limits. So believe beforehand (both as provider and receiver) what your limitations are. Make sure there is an appropriate intake, and a decent preparation (also with your lover/massage partner). Set clear borders ahead of time: about psychological boundaries, and also take care for clearness about physical limits. It is a mistaken belief that a tantric massage should always be naked, nonsense. With clothes on is also completely okay (however hard to work with oil then). It is also a mistaken belief that a tantric massage need to be concentrated on the sexual parts of the body (breasts/sex), nonsense too. Personally, we have given/received lots of tantric massages just on the head. In addition, in fact each cell is sensual, but you will be astonished.
Tantric massage is an energetic massage
Trigger and let circulation easily
Activating and freeing the circulation of life energy (prana) is the primary part of tantra massage. Tantra massage is an energetic massage in which sexual energy likewise gets attention. In a tantric massage, the entire body gets involved and erotic zones can also be touched. Of course, constantly with regard for (mutual) boundaries. When activating life energy, sexual energy plays a crucial role again. In tantra massage we have fun with the activation of standard/ sexual/ psychological/ enthusiastic/ love/ creation/ instinctive energy.
Focused on the natural delighted state of being
There is a discussion going on whether tantra massage is part of "real" tantra. Well ... Tantra is a really practical, body-oriented motion, a vision of life intended at growing in love and awareness. As far as we are concerned, tantra massage is one of them.
Usually leading to a fantastic physical, mental wellness
This is likewise the case with a tantra massage. A tantra massage is usually nice, often delicious. We, for that reason, invite you to fully take pleasure in getting ánd giving a tantric massage.
What Tantric massage isn't really?
There are lots of kinds of massage. Obviously, all massages have specific practices and techniques in typical. Yet there is a big distinction with e.g.:
* Relaxation massage (targeted at relaxation).
* Sports massage (concentrated on the muscles).
* Sexual massage (focused on pleasure satisfaction).
* (Body) treatment (aimed at recovery).
Well since you are truly incredibly energetic during/after the massage. A tantra massage is NOT a sensual massage either. It's a kind of style these days to see tantra massage as a therapy, however therapy is an occupation apart.
The fundamentals of tantric massage.
For a detailed description, see the article on the essentials of tantric massage. In summary, the following fundamentals stick out:
Tantra massage ideas-- prior to you start
* Create a warm, confutable tantric massage area (this can be done easily on both an infall massage or an outcall massage).
* Offer excellent conditions (physically, but also psychologically).
* Explain agreements!
* start by getting naked together.
Tantric massage pointers-- throughout the massage.
* Start, stay, end connected to each other.
* Always keep your attention on the massage.
* Make certain your massage is need free, don't press or force anything.
* Open your own heart, and open the heart of the receiver.
* Activate (sexual) energy and distribute it throughout the whole body.
* Don't only use your hands. Discover the body to body massage.
* As soon as in a while ... not do anything at all! Be 1000% present. Take pleasure in!
* Utilize your senses.
* Provide feedback (enjoyment sounds?).
* Build in integration (rest) moments.
Some masseurs are more/mainly interested in what they themselves discover enjoyable, enjoyable, desirable. Though a tantra massage is not a work task, so as a giver you can likewise enjoy yourself, still the core is that you are there for the recipient. So forget your own "requirements", keep away from your very own concerns and above all ... do not aim to require anything. Absolutely nothing needs to be done, nothing is needed! Again, do not aim to impose anything (your own goal/body/needs/ sexuality) on the receiver! Tune in to exactly what the recipient requirements. It is as it is, and it goes as it goes. Trust in love. Perhaps you are dissatisfied when somebody goes to sleep. You might not be waiting on a psychological cry, however a tantric massage has no goal. No desired outcome. It is what it is. Accept that.
Tantra massage pointers-- after the massage.
* Take sufficient time to process, to let the massage settle.
* Require time to exchange your experiences.
* Recognize that a tantric massage can have an effect for days. Be careful/alert.
* Do not right away go "full-on". Take your time and rest after the massage.
10 essential tantra massage tips (insights/rules).
* Do not work towards an objective. We get asked all the time, it this a happy ending massage? Yes it can be, it generally is but there is no pressure for you to carry out, this is about letting that energy circulation.
* Respect borders, set clear boundaries beforehand. Our masseuses are mostly really open minded - they are naturally because of the nature of their work however they are masseuses - not escorts.
* Keep the wishes of the recipient in mind, naturally. However, understand that it can end up differently.
* It is constantly an energetic massage. Start with the heart.
* Trigger sexual energy. Energize the entire body. Being excited is typical and preferable.
* Self-love and awareness (at the recipient) are extremely important! A lot can show up.
* Look out to renewed freezing minutes. Avoid limits from being crossed again.
* Action by action becoming freer ... Growing trust ... fine. Taking pleasure in the restored balance and connection between sex and heart.
* Provide feedback (e.g. enjoyment noises) and supply integration moments (just doing absolutely nothing).
* Tantra massage is more than sexual fulfillment, still: can Yoni or Lingam massage happen?
Do not discharge, however recharge.
This is how you experience heart orgasm and body orgasm.
By this we indicate do not hurry towards the climatic ending, hold it, remain in the minute, let that sexual energy develop and flood your entire body.
Possible impacts of tantric massage.
Offers peace and relaxation.
Tantric massage is a massage that gets you out of your head. A massage that brings peace and relaxation to your body. You will be calm and relaxed (but you will not fall asleep). During/after the massage it becomes peaceful in your head (sometimes totally empty).
Brings your life energy into movement.
Tantrix massage brings you the experience of incredibly streaming life energy. Your body armor ends up being softer, thinner and even vanishes. The tantric touch is healthy, massage has a possible recovery impact. It is possible that obstructions, psychological injuries concern the surface. There may be an emotional release, consisting of physical responses such as shaking, weeping, shocks. Despite the fact this company that tantra massage is not the like recovery, this release might heal some blockades.
Makes you soft and caring.
Tantra massage opens your body and your heart. You become more loving, you discover exactly what it is like to enjoy yourself.
You will feel comfy in your body. The mix of relaxation and a lot of energy implies that you can enjoy yourself, your body, your energies.
In brief, tantric massage is ...
* A loving touch.
* Filled with attention and presence.
* The entire body participates.
* Energetic massage, consisting of sexual energy.
* Without standard type, without predefined result.
* With regard to (shared) boundaries.
* Establishes a (heart) connection between the provider and receiver.
* Concentrated on the natural, thrilled state of being of the recipient.
* Normally resulting in a fantastic physical, mental wellness (of both).